e) 可以和面試官聊一聊自己的家人和朋友。面試官想要了解的是申請者作為一個“完整的人”是什么樣的。有時候大家一直關注自身,反而忽視了身邊的人,他們一直支持你,對你的性格塑造肯定是很大影響的。不妨打個溫情牌,說說家里的故事,一邊反思what made you the person you are today,也是能有很多細節可以挖掘的。
Tell me about a challenge/ success/ failure of yours?
面試官是人,是人都喜歡聽故事,而且得是細節滿滿的故事。
建議:
a) 一個故事用2-3分鐘,不宜過長??梢怨室饬舭?,引誘面試官對某個細節進一步的提問。
b) 關于故事細節:很多時候,大家傾向于籠統的說自己做了什么事情,但不講細節。面試官見過許許多多的面試者,萬變不離其中,你做的活動面試官指不定都聽過很多很多類似的了。只有細節才能加深面試官的印象,講的越生動越有感染力,因而,第一,可以證明你沒有在吹噓,真的參與這項活動,做了很多努力,第二,可以看出你在做自己熱愛的事情時是全情投入。
c) 講故事的思路要清楚,不要邏輯跳躍,東講講西扯扯。這里推薦一個萬用法寶,STAR Method。都是套路我懂,但是這個方法能幫助你迅速提煉出故事的核心,邏輯滿分。
Situation–?What was the situation? Describe it succinctly.*
Task?–?What tasks were involved in that situation? What problems you were trying to solve?*
Action?–?What actions did you take? Always mention the details. Avoid using too many?“we”. The interviewer wants to know WHAT YOU DID, not what others did. You need to show your contributions.*
Why do you do it: 一定要是自己的original thought!How did you do it: what did you find the most interest during the process; who did you ask for advice; what did you learn; were you leading a teamWhat is the significance:做好了有什么意義,是激發了某方面的學術興趣?What does that bring to you high school career; did it help you understand a subject better, or to what extent did it help you become a kind of person (回到你開頭總結的三個關鍵詞)
問題六
What is your biggest weakness?
說了很多關于自己的優點后突然碰見這個問題會不會有點懵逼。首先,請務必避免下列三種回答:
a) 對自己有極大負面影響的例子,比如自己上課不聽講,品行道德有缺陷之類的
b) 類似于“我最大的缺點就是學習太刻苦不會放輕松”“我對自己和別人要求太高”等等根本不算缺點的缺點,給自己洗白的目的太刻意了,顯得沒有誠意
c) “我睡覺太晚”“我不喜歡吃蔬菜”等,這些根本不算是biggest weakness,面試官提問這個問題主要是想考察你是否對自身的長處和短處有清晰的認識,也是看你面對自己缺點時的態度